Tuesday, October 17, 2006

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On Sunday, Hope had a very good post about deceit and lies. It does happen in the blogging world, just like it happens in the real world. I found Fumbling for Words on Hope's blog list and came across these questions.:

1.Why did you start blogging? Im not sure. For quite awhile I was a regular reader of a popular true crime blog. One day there was a post offering a link to blogspot for anyone who wanted to start their own blog. My blog is my very own thing, I have complete control over it, I do it because I want to, and it is something I enjoy doing.

2. Do you feel that you've developed meaningful relationships on your blog? If so, tell a story or two of a relationship that made a difference to you. How are these relationships different and/or similar to your in-person relationships? Ive met some very interesting, kind, smart, and funny people thru blogging. People I would never have gone out of my way in the 'real world' to meet. They are very much like my in-person friends, I feel at ease with them and I want to hear what they have to say. One special blogging friend is very different from any friend Ive ever had. He is very open with his feelings and more complex as a person than I am used to. He challenges my emotional barren but comfortable existence.

3. Have you used your blog as a place to work out tough situations in your life? If so, what was the situation/challenge, and how did the blog help? Yes. Not any one tough situation in particular. Just everyday problems that happen to everyone else. My blog is a safe place for me to rant and use 4-letter words. It is a safe place for me to say exactly how I feel or talk about a certain subject. Sometimes, just typing out a rant or a problem will make me feel better-free psychological therapy.

4. Were there people you met through blogging who helped you through those tough situations? What did they do that helped? Never under-estimate a comment left, it may just help you work thru a tough situation or solve a dilemma. A blogging friend is less likely to sugar coat what I may need to hear.

5. Were there ever things that you felt you could talk about on your blog to "strangers" that you couldn't tell your flesh-and-blood friends and family? No.

6. Do your family and "in-person" friends read your blog? Why or why not? Yes. My family reads my blog. My sister J. is a regular reader. She never comments in the comment section, I showed her how to this summer but she doesnt use it, she usually emails or IM's me. My niece Kelly reads sometimes. I send her posts I think she may find interesting. She is a police officer and a mother to a toddler (like me). My best friend reads when she gets around to it (she usually has already heard what Ive had to say that day). My husband does not, he isint even sure what it is I am doing when I am 'blogging'. I am glad he doesnt read it, it contains a few not-so-nice rants about him. But, if he wanted to read it, I would not tell him no.

7. Have you ever regretted admitting really personal things on your blog? Why or why not? no, Ive never revealed anything or said anything in writing that I would never say outloud.

8. Have you come into conflict with anyone on your blog? Did it destroy a relationship that you valued, or was it someone you didn't care about? Recently, I wrote a post about Wiccan spells and VooDoo dolls, this woman left a comment with scriptures about how it was evil, deny satan, this was a crossroads in life to choose God or Satan.......I was like, WTF? I am not turning into a devil worshipper or going to run around casting Spells! My post was just about something I found interesting and I had a story behind it. I respected her opinion, but gee wiz.......I read this woman's blog daily, she lives in my state, she seems like a neat person, we have a lot of things in common, except the fanatical religion thing..........
She thinks I am the devil now, hasnt been back for a visit since that post.

9. Do you ever think about quitting blogging? Why or why not? Yes. Sometimes I just get the feeling "I do not want to do this anymore." it usually passes, but if one day it doesnt, Ill quit blogging.

10. Any other interesting stories that might be applicable? One thing I get from my blog, it is an easy way for me to communicate and share. Sometimes it is easier to write thoughts, feelings, ideas down........it is clearer than actually speaking the words. Sometimes I find it difficult to express myself in conversations, writing the words down is my way of saying exactly what I want to be heard.

This is HOPE 's blog disclaimer (I hope she doesnt mind I borrowed it and adopted it as my own, she said it perfectly). I agree with it 100%:

"The things I write in my blog are small, very small, snippets of my life, the absolute truth, to the best of my recollection, as seen through my eyes , experience, biases and perception. That is my disclaimer."

I do have some confessions tho, some of these things you may or may not know:

1.I am not a natural blonde, I choose to be one
2.I am kinda fat but I like myself when I look into a mirror
3.I am not a 'people person'
4.I know how to spell correctly and how to use proper grammar, even tho it may not appear that way

How we perceive the world around us is our reality. I share my world as I see it, with pictures too. When people read The Res, they get it straightforward.

Anyhow, thats about it...


Blogger butterfly_chic26 said...

Hey there girl! I loved this post, just like I love all the other posts you have done!

As referring to your number 9 and the lady who thinks you are the devil now because of your voodoo post. PFFT. On her, she may think whatever she thinks, but if she is that close minded as a person maybe she wasn't worth your time to begin with. I don't understand people who can not like a person for the person he/she is, and not just like them for what they say or in our cases post.

It's really non of her business what religion you practice, but to assume you are into that without exploring it first, is what I just stated up above, a Closed Minded person.

I love ya girl! And I say one of these days we should meet up in bville and have a margarita (um i spelt that wrong).

Do you mind if I take the questions and answer them over at my blog?

9:27 AM  
Anonymous madd said...

Bg...wow!! that picture is ..just WOW, how amazing to capture it at just that moment. Thanks for this post..thats why I come visit you, your the real deal..take care..m
p.s. .had to do it posted a rant today, not to B**chy, but a rant none the less..

9:27 AM  
Blogger brian said...

Aniin BG,

(((((Hugs)))) and all that crap. ;)

Love the questions and I learned a lot with this post. I *may* borrow it myself sometime.

You know I love you, and love your your blog. The honesty with which you write, the passion for your causes, all the interests that you have. This blog has gone beyond a highlight for me. Your words... I don't know, I just feel like I am sitting at a table with you talking when I read here. It's comfortable, warm, laughing, angry; all the *emotions* come through loud and clear. I hear and see the Spirits that surround you.

I could go on and on, but you know how I feel about you.


9:43 AM  
Blogger MissSexyAnnie1 said...

Hi it's me again, the person you don't know.

Those are some awesome questions and answers that you have there. I had to go back and read most of your posts last night, to catch up. I'm caught up I do believe. You have such a gift for photography! I wish I had that gift!

I agree with Butterflychic26, when she referred to your question number 9. That person to me sounds like to be a very closed minded person (i hope I'm not tredding on some ground I'm not supposed to be), I don't think she would last 1 month here in the city. The stuff you see here, is unbelievable. My roommate she is a Wiccan/Pagonist (sp?) granted it freaked my crap out at first, but once you live with them a while you begin to see where they are coming from. She never dabbles into the evil stuff, she's more of worshiper of nature, she's our modern Hippie Chick :)

Well, again, I love your blog, and your posts, and your pictures, and your horse is absolutely beautiful!!!

9:47 AM  
Blogger brian said...

I forgot.

Not a natural blonde????

9:49 AM  
Blogger kt said...

loved your confessions! i agree to the: "How we perceive the world around us is our reality."

10:33 AM  
Blogger Celeste said...

What I like about you is your honesty. I enjoy every post I read of yours. I do believe I would like you "in person" too.

10:35 AM  
Blogger Celeste said...

I love reading you. You are honest. It shows. Yea I know cyber can hide a lot but I feel in the end it usually comes out. Kind of like "real life". I would like to think that if we were "in person" people we would be "in person" friends.

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Blogger Hope said...

I'm going to answer Heathers questions as well, I adore her blog.
The reason i visit is I do believe you are the "real deal"
Love your confessions. I've made many on my blog, but you will have to start at the beginning.

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Blogger Heather said...

Thanks for playing along! I love your answers, even though this is my first time visiting. I do believe I'll snoop around a little, though. :-) And, if you don't mind, I may use one or two of your quotes in my article. I like the reference to free therapy and "never under-estimate a comment left".


By the way - for any of the other commenters who said they might use the questions, could you please come visit my blog and leave a comment so I know you've done them? I'm working on an article on this and I'm looking for some good quotes.

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Blogger Unacknowledged Genius said...

One reason I love your blog is because the first time I read it I felt like you were a person I would like equally as well in real life. There was no artifice, no facade, you felt genuine. After reading for a few months I still believe that and I'd hang with you IRL in a heart beat. Now maybe I'm just a poor judge of character, I've come to wrong conclusions about others whose blogs I read, but I think I was right where you are concerned. I'd bet money on it.

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Blogger RedNeckGirl said...

I adore your blog.....with all the beautiful pics, funny stories, serious news information, and real life....I could see us hanging out if we lived close. I love your answers and your honesty.

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Blogger FelineFrisky said...

Right on!! I realte to your words, your stories. I feel your passions run through your words. I come here, not only because I like you, but because your opinion means alot to me. D :}

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Blogger Swampwitch said...

Oh my goodness! What an incredible picture. I have a post ready with a double rainbow for Brian's poem. Your picture makes mine look sick. I'm going to add a link to your blog so readers can see what a brilliant Oklahoma rainbow looks like.
Your post was interesting and I enjoyed reading it.

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Blogger BarnGoddess said...

butterflychic26-if you do these questions, please send Heather a link to your post. Here is her link: http://fumblingforwords.blogspot.com/
This origionated at her site,she is doing some kind of research or article. I KNEW you were a real person when I first visited your blog :) you had weenie dogs....we need to get to b-ville and hang out, chat in real person!

madd-Im glad I dont scare you away :) of course, when ranting, you can be pretty scary (just joking!)

Brian-awww, you made me feel all warm and fuzzy, lately only TT can do that with his hugs. Sometimes I think my posts might not make any sense, usually I am typing exactly what is going thru my crazy mind. Glad you like it because as far as words and writing go, you are the one with the talent. If you use these at your site would you send heather a link to your post at : http://fumblingforwords.blogspot.com/

misssexyannie1-I would not last a month in NYC, I need the great outdoors..without people :) but yes, I hear you about the religious lady. Her comment just came out of no-where...I wasnt mad or hurt about her comment, just ummm suprised I guess.

celeste-Im almost positive we'd hang IRL, you have horses :) and are the real deal. I also like the fact that you hay your own fields on a huge tractor, Im not allowed near ours OR the riding lawn mower...

kt-"How we perceive the world around us is our reality." I had a doctor friend who I worked with say that to me about 6 years ago and the more I thought about it, it was true-it stuck w/ me.

hope-Ill be over for more archiving soon. I havent came across any blogs where I felt the personna was not who they have said, Ive read a few profiles before the blog and stopped there from going any further, you know-just a feeling.

heather-snoop as much as you can stand, my posts can be a bit mundane....usually about horses, weather, and kids. Ive passed your link to my friends who might do the questions. I think your questions were very good.

unacknowledgedgenius-yep, IRL we'd hang, drink beer, listen to good tunes...too bad your so far away! I like your blog, especially your sense of humor....I often think about the toad poop post, it was toad poop right?

redneckgirl-thnx :) I am not creative enough to try an attempt at embellishing my real life goings ons. But, I am glad you come around and dont find it boring.

diane-I like hearing what you have to say, I like reading the rats nest to hear and know about whats going on at your house. Geesh, I am nosey huh?

swampwitch-link away :)

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Blogger pinky said...

Blog honesty is one I wonder about. I've met people that weren't very truthful in life, but I'm a hopeful kind of gal and I think the best of most. I don't know if that's for the best or worst, but there it is.

Very good post, it's a fresh look at this little world we all share.

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Blogger brian said...

Aniin BG,

Just wanted to let you know that my e-mail to you tonight was kicked back twice as undeliverable.

SMTP error from remote mailer after end of data:
host mailin-02.mx.aol.com []: 554-:
(HVU:B1) http://postmaster.info.aol.com/errors/554hvub1.html

I'll try again later.

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Blogger BarnGoddess said...

ack! Ive been spammed...

I emailed ya bri

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Aniin BG,

I got your e-mail, but tried sending mine again and it bounced back. Yours is the only one I have a problem with. I even tried replying to your e-mail in case my address got messed up but it came back again!!!

As to your spam, just use the little trash cans and delete the comments.

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That rainbow picture is *gorgeous*!

I really appreciate your honesty on this blog. Sometimes I wonder if people are wondering about *me* because my blog is pretty impersonal (I'm trying to be the BoingBoing of the horsey set ;) but I love chatting back and forth in the comments, and I do hope people feel comfortable there. Sometimes I tell myself I've got to start a more personal blog, but to be honest my life is pretty dull. ;) "Got up at 5:30, taught, came home", lather, rinse, repeat...

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